Children Witness It All – Now What?

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Kids express emotions differently to us. They cry about silly things because they are unsure how to cry about the deeper things. Sometimes all you can do is give cuddles and be with them. Let them know you got them

If I could change the past? I would have learnt the following much quicker.

  1. Be assertive and do not allow myself to be manipulated and lied to. My intuition knew the whole time. Yup the entire 16 years
  2. I would show my daughter that its unacceptable to be treated with disrespect by not allowing myself to go through it over and over
  3. I would show my daughter that you are allowed requirements, and a man that has more than 1 woman is not acceptable to me
  4. I would protect myself legally and not relie on someone who is dishonest to have our best interests at heart
  5. I would prosecute anyone who bullied me online rather than respond

I can’t go back and change the past. I must accept, and I do, that I did my best.

What I can do now?

  1. Do not let those same words that had me hooked,  continue to infiltrate me
  2. Watch actions over words in everyone
  3. Keep my doors shut to people who don’t fufill my requirements whilst keeping my heart soft
  4. Listen to the inner voice. If its telling me someone or something is off, accept it
  5. Parent consciously. Be that parent you were before all the heartache happened
  6. Be assertive. Have boundaries. Surround myself with people who wish to be better.

Submissiveness in women is huge at the moment and that’s something we can change. All it takes is a willingness to be stronger and an unyielding faith that you can.

And you can I know. Because I’m doing it

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Author: Conscious Family Dynamics

I Be. I Am. I journey through life picking up lessons, removing layers and returning more and more into who I truly am every day. Sometimes I’m in the forest slaying my own beasts, and sometimes I’m in flow rejoicing in all this universe has to offer. I’ve experienced many many emotions, feeling stuck, wanting to give up, self disgust, freedom, self love, and I have found my way through it all. I support you whilst together we work towards you becoming more of who you are, and learning to love yourself so that you can become that mum or dad that you dream of being. (or actually anyone, we all affect the kids). Being confident and parenting consciously comes when you are feeling more stable and fulfilled within yourself. You only get this lifetime with this opportunity, once. ​ Through programmes I’ve designed based on my own experiences together we will pin point some of your limiting beliefs, emotional ties and transition them into a new way of being in life. Together we will identify what you can remove from your life to allow more space for joy. We will find ways to set up structure and boundaries in all areas of your life. We will start to discover who you really are underneath it all. What you really dream of. We will show you ways to manifest, create and start to live in the way you fantasise about. And the most exciting part, we will implement conscious parenting into your every day life! And we will do that all through internal respect. It all starts with the self. I show the way as I live my way. Let’s guide you to you.

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