Why Being Assertive Matters In Parenting

The opposite of assertive is passive. Submissive women are impacting our children.
We are teaching them that it is ok to be with men that abuse us. That it is ok to have friends who use us. That is is acceptable to bully each other to get what we want. We are showing them how to self sacrifice and that we dont matter. We are doormats.

We need to learn to have boundaries and be assertive. To keep ourselves safe and fufilled. To know that we have no conditions.

We are unconditional. In every way we choose to be. The universe is unconditional. There are no limits other than the limits we place on ourselves.

Unconditional love. Unconditional fire. Unconditional me. Unconditional you.

Unconditional motivation to use my vision to pull me and guide me to use my fire to make an impact while I am on this earth.

​Do you notice the limits you place on yourself are your limits? Do you notice where you submit to others when really you wish to tell them to fuck off?

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Author: Conscious Family Dynamics

I Be. I Am. I journey through life picking up lessons, removing layers and returning more and more into who I truly am every day. Sometimes I’m in the forest slaying my own beasts, and sometimes I’m in flow rejoicing in all this universe has to offer. I’ve experienced many many emotions, feeling stuck, wanting to give up, self disgust, freedom, self love, and I have found my way through it all. I support you whilst together we work towards you becoming more of who you are, and learning to love yourself so that you can become that mum or dad that you dream of being. (or actually anyone, we all affect the kids). Being confident and parenting consciously comes when you are feeling more stable and fulfilled within yourself. You only get this lifetime with this opportunity, once. ​ Through programmes I’ve designed based on my own experiences together we will pin point some of your limiting beliefs, emotional ties and transition them into a new way of being in life. Together we will identify what you can remove from your life to allow more space for joy. We will find ways to set up structure and boundaries in all areas of your life. We will start to discover who you really are underneath it all. What you really dream of. We will show you ways to manifest, create and start to live in the way you fantasise about. And the most exciting part, we will implement conscious parenting into your every day life! And we will do that all through internal respect. It all starts with the self. I show the way as I live my way. Let’s guide you to you.

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